Here are some added barriers LGBT survivors must face when trying to end an abusive relationship:

• LGBT survivors have much more difficulty finding appropriate support because of heterosexism and homophobia in the judicial, law enforcement, and social service organizations. 
  
• The myth prevails that LGBT partner abuse is "mutual," and therefore minimized by family, friends, law enforcement and social service agencies. 
  
• Utilizing services is tantamount to "coming out" and can be a major factor in deciding whether to access available services.
  
• Some lesbians deny that partner abuse happens between queer women because of not wanting to destroy the myth of a "lesbian utopia."
  
• It can be difficult for the survivor to "come out" about the abuse because of fear of reinforcing the stereotype that all LGBT people are "sick".
  
• Leaving the relationship may mean total isolation from the LGBT community, especially where there is a small, tight-nit queer community.
  
• If the community is small, "everyone" may soon find out about the abuse - and may blame the victim.
  
• The survivor may fight back, and it may be very confusing as to who is the abuser.
  
• Isolation of the survivor is increased due to homophobia in our society.
  
• The "use" of children is more of an issue when only one parent can have legal custody. Leaving the relationship may mean loosing the child.
  
• LGBT people are often assumed to be straight, which increases confusion and isolation.
  
• Since queer relationships are not validated by society ending the relationship may be taken lightly.